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29 March 2024 Clock 15:29

I am about to marry a girl. I’m almost a religious person and religion takes priority in my life. However, she says she is not very religious and she has taken her beliefs from other members of the family especially her brothers’ wives. She says she cannot observe fast because she is a teacher and fasting causes her to feel weak. She also says she does not offer her prayers regularly and does not care about it very much. Nevertheless, she says she observes moral rules and promises to observe hijab to the extent that satisfies me. Now I don’t know what to do. It should be added that my parents agree with the conditions put by her family.

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Two things are important in marriage: good behavior and religiosity. If a girl has good behavior and observes hijab, offers her prayers and observes her fasts, she is good for marriage.
If the girl does not care about her prayers and fasts and her excuse for not observing fast is feeling weak or her job not religiously acceptable excuses, she is not good for marriage. Of course, it is not forbidden to marry her but you’d better marry someone who is committed to her prayers and fasts.
Having said that, if in future you can encourage her to offer her prayers and observe her fasts and she belongs to a religious family and is good in terms of behavior and hijab, you can marry her.

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